Mon Feb 02, 2009 12:07 am EST
If you're a Cardinals fan, maybe it's best if you don't read this right now. You're still emotional. You're still hurting. Take the night and maybe tomorrow, and give yourself time to suffer sufficiently. Then come back. When you're ready, there's something I'd like to say to you.
Please don't be bitter about this loss. Please don't blame the officials for it. Please don't needlessly fill your heart with hate that will still be manifesting itself in embarrassing ways years later. You're better than that.
I'm not saying there weren't some goofy calls in this game. There were, and some of those goofy calls went against the Cardinals. Not all of them, though. There's no way I'm going to get into every single call, but the Cardinals were also the beneficiaries of a couple. Just off the top of my head, the safety was called on an extremely chintzy holding call, and James Harrison was held way more often than people were called for holding James Harrison.
And the Kurt Warner fumble call that wasn't reviewed at the end? Come on, do you really think that turned the game? If the officials do review it and it does go the Cardinals' way (which might not have happened), it buys them 15 seconds and a couple of shots at the end zone. That's somehow a guarantee of a win? That somehow means you were robbed?
Sometimes, a loss is just a loss.
In the wake of Super Bowl XL, there was a certain segment of Seahawks fans that redefined what it means to be a whiny fanbase. The crying, moaning and bellyaching that went on after that game was unprecedented. One of the loudest and most spirited fanbases in the league, and a normally rational and sane group of people, suddenly morphed into a giant, mindless tribe that was like a hybrid of high school girls who lost the vote for prom queen and the 9/11 truthers. Conspiracy theories and self pity-parties were out of control. It was sad, really.
Don't be like that. For your own good, don't be like that. Not only will you embarrass yourselves and make everyone hate you, but if you honestly look into your heart and ask yourself, "Can I say that we honestly and absolutely deserved to win this game?", I think you'll find that the answer is no.
Congratulate yourselves on a fantastic season, know that you shut up anyone who didn't think you belonged in the game, and get used to being one of the NFL's better franchises. You could be back, very very soon.
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by the way just FYI for you whiners, there are NO MORE 5 yard facemasks, it is all the 15 yards variety so please do not make yourself look stupid
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I feel that a great game was ruined by the failure of the officials to account for that play. I honestly don't know what way it should have gone, and I got to see it replayed 2 or 3 times. At least have an official look at it and then offer an explanation, and I might be appeased.
Remember, I speak with no bias here, except that of a man who feels cheated out of what might have been a classic ending to an overall great game (although a poorly officiated one).
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This was one of the more exciting SuperBowls in recent memory, and it's extremely disappointed to have it tainted by a questionable call that wasn't reviewed. Remember, Arizona had won their previous two challenges and had a challenge left, but due to NFL rules they couldn't use it at an extremely critical time. Somehow, a play that could have definitely been called either way on the field wasn't viewed.
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Now the home team can move to LA for all I care.
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thanks to both teams for a good game.
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OH, YEA !, and if you can't stand it, don't watch !! That is the only leverage you have...
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