Woman accused of being ‘selfish’ after refusing to plan sister’s baby shower

A woman doesn't know how to react to the fact that her sister is pregnant with her ex-boyfriend's baby. She explained the situation on Reddit's "Am I the A******" forum. “My parents and rest of my family are going insane over my sister Sophia’s pregnancy”. “I’m trying to be polite, but it’s especially upsetting because the father of my future nephew/niece is the guy I was really in love with”. “Luke was actually someone I dated first, back in my final year of university”. “When we graduated, we both went back home, and he spent pretty much the entire summer at ours … That's when Luke and Sophia got together”. "The drama comes when my mom asked me if I could plan the baby shower, and I told her no”. “my mom got upset with me and 'my tone' and accused me of being unsupportive of my sister’s happiness this whole time”. Reddit users thought the poster's feelings were valid. "Your family is really thoughtless and unkind," a user said. "This situation sounds excruciating," another wrote