I'm Basically Never NOT Tired, So I Tried The Popular "7 Kinds Of Rest" Strategy That Promises Better Sleep
Hi, I'm Megan, and I suck at sleeping.
So, I gotta say, when I first saw this viral Twitter thread about the seven types of rest we need to avoid burnout, my first thought was, SEVEN?!?!? That's too much work.
How to avoid burnout.Get 7 types of rest:
And I'm definitely not the only one who felt that way.
@SystemSunday This is all well and good to say, but when you’re burning the candle at both ends to cover the cost of living, it’s useless advice. People aren’t avoiding doing this because they want to. They’re not getting rest because they can’t.
I was super curious about what all the different kinds of rest could even be, so I dug in to the thread. Some of them actually seemed pretty easy to incorporate in my daily life while others felt more abstract. But as someone who whines that I'm soooo tired at least once a day, I figured it couldn't hurt to give each one a try.
Have you ever slept 7+ hours but still felt EXHAUSTED?Me too.While sleeping is physical rest,You actually need 7 types of rest to avoid burnout(According to Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith).So stay at your best with these 7 types of rest:
The thread also links to a Rest Quiz that breaks down what kinds of rest you may need the most. After I got my results, I decided to try an experiment. I made a plan to spend a week trying one type of rest per day, going in order of what the quiz said I needed the most. I also did my best to choose rest options that could be more accessible for the average person than, say, a day at the spa (though that would've been nice).
Here's what happened during my week of rest and relaxation:
1.Day One: Sensory Rest. I gave my overstimulated brain a break by changing up the evening ambiance in my house.
5. Sensory RestThe modern individual is overstimulated.• Take a break from social media• Turn off notifications (sounds and visual alerts)• Limit video meetings• Set a relaxing evening ambiance (soothing music, candles, etc.)
To create a chilled-out atmosphere after dinner, I dimmed my lights and relief immediately flooded my eyeballs. You know when you've been clenching your jaw for hours and hours without realizing it and then you finally let it go? Just lowering the lights felt like that times 10 for me. It's such a small and easy change, but at the same time, it made a huge difference.
2.Day Two: Social Rest. I indulged in my introverted tendencies by giving myself some extra alone time.
3. Social RestEvaluate your relationships.• Spend more time with people who give you energy• Spend less time with people who steal your energy• If you're an introvert, block out time to be alone
After work, I usually go for a walk as a sort of fake-commute. To build in some extra me-time, I brought a book with me and took a break from walking to hang out in the park with me, myself, and I. It was sort of relaxing, but I had a hard time letting myself enjoy it.
3.Day Three: Emotional Rest. I treated myself to a little emotional rest by having a drink with some friends.
6. Emotional RestEmotional rest deficit occurs when you feel like you can't be authentic.Ex: An airline attendant who must always smile, despite rude passengers.• Spend time with people you can be authentic around• Try speaking with a therapist to release emotional labor
So, I met up with a couple of friends to share a cheese board, drink wine, and cackle like witches on the patio of one of our favorite bars. It made me realize how "serious" I tend to be in my daily life, even though I feel like a goofy little gremlin at heart.
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This day was simply pure fun, and I absolutely needed it! I'm not always great at making time to be with my friends, but whenever I do, I really feel the difference in my mood. I got sleepy really early, too (though I think it was the wine).
My verdict: I needed this! I definitely want to be better about seeing my friends more.
4.Day Four: Physical Rest. I did some bedtime stretches to wind down my day.
1. Physical RestLack of sleep and overtraining deplete your body's energy.Get two types of physical rest, passive and active:Passive• Sleep 7+ hrs nightly• Take power naps (as needed)Active• Stretch• Get a massage• Use an ergonomic chair + desk
With my mood lighting in full effect and a comfy show playing in the background, I dusted off my yoga mat and set out to do about 10 minutes of gentle stretching. But once I got started, I kinda lost track of time and ended up flowing for 40 minutes.
5.Day Five: Mental Rest. Not to brag, but I already do most of the stuff listed in the tweet below, because otherwise, I will forget literally everything.
2. Mental RestMental rest deficit is caused by overtaxing your thinking.• Write down your to-dos• Reference checklists (packing, groceries, etc.)• Create a shutdown ritual to separate work and life• Take a break from problem-solving• Meditate
Meditation is the only thing on the mental rest list that I don't regularly do, so I decided to try a quick three-minute meditation in the afternoon.
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First, I did some research into free meditation apps, because I'm not totally sure what I'm supposed to be doing when I sit down to meditate and could use some instructions. I ended up downloading Insight Timer because it has a ton of free guided meditations so I can try a variety of instructors and styles to figure out what I like.
I felt weirdly resistant to sitting down to meditate, but when I opened up my eyes again, I felt refreshed, and my head was really clear.
My verdict: Meditation felt great when I was done, but it was so, so hard to force myself to do it. I think this is my "eat your vegetables" of self-care.
6.Day Six: Creative Rest. I spent more time with a book on my lunch break.
7. Creative RestAppreciate beauty in any form, whether natural or human-created:Natural• Take in a sunrise or sunset• Go for a walk in natureHuman-created• Visit a museum or art festival• Engage with inspiring music, books, documentaries, etc.
I always want to read more, but the tired and burned-out part of me tends to look at this as "work," so I often reach for my phone instead of a book. Reframing reading as rest made it so much more relaxing and enjoyable.
7.Day Seven: Spiritual Rest. Finally, I finished up my week by going through my budget and finding room to set up a recurring charitable donation.
4. Spiritual RestBe part of something bigger than yourself.• Volunteer• Work a job that feels purpose-driven• Participate in faith-based activities (if aligned to your belief system)
I ended up finding a couple of subscriptions that I'd forgotten about and haven't been using. So, I canceled them and set up a recurring monthly donation to my local food bank instead.
My biggest takeaway from this week is that even though my tired brain wants to not do things, I feel so much better when I fight through that feeling and do them anyway.
Thinking about these self-care things as "rest" instead of "activities" also made it so much easier to get into them and enjoy myself. Like, the difference between saying to myself, "I should really read more" vs. "Now I get to relax with a book" is huge.
I don't know if I'll continue doing all of these things, but a few that were really impactful are definitely sticking around in my daily routine. Lowering the lights, stretching before bed, and reading at lunch were all pretty easy to add into my day, and, unlike scrolling on my phone for hours, they all made me feel a little less tired.