P: Bruce, go get the mental help you need. Wearing a dress does not make you a woman anymore than wearing a jockstrap makes me a guy. You are born with a specific XX or XY makeup that determines your sex unless you have a medical issue. This is not Baskin Robbins with 32 flavors to pick from. There are two options and you're born with one or the other unless you have a medical issue, which is a totally different matter than living in the delusional state of mind you're in that requires lifelong drug use and self-mutilation.