Here's the thing. I was sick from school and he claimed that EVERYONE thought I was ruining the league and wanted him back at commish. His incessant whining and complaining were too much. He literally called me 8 times in 2 hours begging for it back. Something I didn't want to deal with while being sick, and something I certainly didn't expect to lead to this.
So basically your saying you took his word as the truth and didn't bother to talk to anyone else in the league. I'm sorry you were sick but it seems like that would have been a decision better for you to make when you were well. As far as the phone calls go it's simple don't answer the phone and turn off the ringer if need be. I do feel bad for you for the situation he's put you in but then you also have to shoulder some of the blame as well. Best of luck to you and I hope you all can resolve your differences.