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    Jim Harbaugh does NOT want to talk about his feelings!

    "Go have a drum circle with someone else, creampuff!" (Getty Images)

    Having had a couple of opportunities to speak with San Francisco 49ers head coach Jim Harbaugh on media calls this year, I'm well aware that while the man clearly knows as much about football as anyone on the planet, he's not always very open with reporters. That's not unusual among coaches, though it's a bit jarring when you live in Seattle and are used to Pete Carroll's two-page opening statements.

    In any case, and for a coach who can be truculent under the best circumstances, it was understandable that Harbaugh might be a little tight-lipped at Monday's end-of-season press conference. Still burning from the 49ers' NFC championship loss to the New York Giants, Harbaugh was short to the point of exasperation at times, refusing to answer certain questions with anything beyond a simple "No," or "I'm not going to turn this into a personnel meeting." He used that one a LOT. But Harbaugh saved the best for last, when one reporter asked what he did after the loss to the Giants.

    "Is it just California that everybody just wants to know how you feel? Care about what you thought, what you did, how you felt, how your pinky feels. Is that just a California thing? Back where I come from, nobody really cares. In my opinion, it is a California thing."

    Alrighty then!

    Harbaugh spent a lot of time in Michigan — his father was an assistant coach for Bo Schembechler for seven years, and Harbaugh played quarterback for the Wolverines. But he also attended Palo Alto High School, and his time as the quarterbacks coach for the Oakland Raiders (2002-2003), the head coach for the University of San Diego (2004-2006) and as Stanford's head coach (2007-2010) should have had him way up on the more "touchy-feely" aspects of the Cali mindset. Maybe Harbaugh picked up that grumpiness from Mike Ditka — he played quarterback for Da Coach from 1987 through 1992 at the start of a 15-year NFL career.

    Harbaugh was, however, a bit more open when talking about his feelings for a group of players that surprised the NFL with a 13-3 record after a decade without a winning season for the 49ers franchise. "I've said so often how proud I was of this team. I thought they played their hearts out. I thought we were a well-coached team. Be very proud of our guys. They stand toe-to-toe and fight every time they go out onto the field. It didn't have the ending that we wanted. The football gods had a different ending in mind for this ballgame. [But I'll] be forever proud of our players and coaches the way they compete."

    That must not be a "California thing." And if you expect him to interface with his players … well, think again. "I talk to all these guys every day. Pretty much every single day, almost every guy. They know how I feel. I know how they feel. No, we're not scheduling sit-down meetings with anybody on the team, from my standpoint, because I know them, they know me."

    The coach was also still rolling one play over and over in his mind from the Giants loss — the ruling on the field that New York fullback Ahmad Bradshaw hadn't fumbled because his forward progress was stopped. It seemed an interesting call for a second-effort back such as Bradshaw, though Harbaugh may not have given his own defense enough credit for the stop.

    "My opinion, that was a fumble," he said. "And I'm sure the league will defend it. And the officials will defend it. But to me the play was continuing. There was still struggling going on by Bradshaw. So, I feel like that was a fumble. We had a game against the Giants, the first time we played them, and Donte Whitner stripped the ball where the hit's made at the six and then he rips the ball out at the nine going backwards. Yeah, didn't like that it wasn't a fumble, but felt like that was forward progress.  This one, I did not agree with. I felt like it was a fumble. I felt like this is analogous with the 'Tuck Rule.'"

    Perhaps a valid point, but now, it's time to move on. What did Harbaugh learn about his team in his first year as an NFL coach — one that has him high on the list of Coach of the Year candidates?

    "This is a class bunch of guys. It's a class group. A class team. They have never been a finger-pointing group. To a man that I've talked to, everybody looks at themselves in the mirror first. Things sting as it relates to what we could have done better."

    He'll never be a New Age coach, but Harbaugh's old-school approach still clearly has a place in today's NFL.

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    • Angelniner  •  Palmdale, California  •  3 months ago
      someone replied to me saying the 49ers were only 1-13 third downs and 12 first downs to the Giants 20...It doesnt matter, just look at the other stats including yards and score before Williams' dumb knee touch and overtime; that was our game, thanks Williams!
    • EJ  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 months ago
      He is right. Ask football questions please. This isn't a sewing circle or a therapy session.
      • Tarue 3 months ago
        "How do you feel about the loss?" IS a football question, idiot. Quit trying to pretend you're too macho to talk or listen about such things. It only highlights your insecurities as much as Harbaugh's.

        Any NFL coach being paid MILLIONS understands in advance that, as the REPRESENTATIVE of a wealthy entity, they will be REQUIRED to answer questions about all sorts of football-related issues. Harbaugh's whining is as pathetic as yours.
      • pops 3 months ago
        The fact is he did not whine. You appear upset that he did'nt Tarue. The last time I checked football happens on the field. It was a personal question, not a game or team related question. Scream and yell now. We already know how you feel.
      • Shaun 3 months ago
        he did not whine? What do you call what he is doing right in this article? Truthfully he is well known to be a whiner and has been since his career as a QB....

        Tarue is right, these are normal questions that every coach is asked after a win/loss. I agree that they are stupid and generic questions, and most athletes and coaches are too jacked up on emotions directly after the game to give clear and well thought out answers. But it is a part of TV, and TV is the largest source of revenue for owners. So it is written in most their contracts that they must give interviews.
    • Amanda  •  Norfolk, Virginia  •  3 months ago
      I don't know what most of you are talking about. Being from SF but living on the East Coast I think he has done a great job turning a losing team around in one year and a short year at that (no off season). I think reporters ask stupid questions... duh how do you think he feels after losing the NFC Championship game? STUPID
      • MacPac 3 months ago
        I agree with ya 100% The man got them to the playoff for the first time in 9 years. Did really want them to beat Giants though since the Giants beat the Pack.
      • Peanut 3 months ago
        Quite honestly, I don't care how he feels. I feel great, that's all that matters!
      • X 3 months ago
        And we don't care how you feel, Peanut.
    • J.D.  •  3 months ago
      Take it from a native Californian, we do not really care either ! It's just the media that THINKS we care !
      • LadyZen 3 months ago
        I couldn't have said it better!!! Great comment!!
      • Chris S 3 months ago
        And you have all been Californicated to the point that you don't care about anything other than more free stuff.....how does one state become so liberal that American kids get sent home for wearing Flag T-shirts, while Mexicans can take our flag down, wear Viva La Raza T- shirts and be allowed to stay at school? Give up "Cali' girls....turn it over to Pedro before he takes it from you.
      • Schneider 3 months ago
        Ummm, that doesn't happen. Born & raised in CA and it is okay to have the American flag on your shirt and I've never seen a Viva La Raza shirt.
    • abcdefg  •  3 months ago
      Stupid reporters with stupid questions. So was Chris Chase there?
      • Citizen 3 months ago
        You sure it was not a question from Chris Tingle Up the Leg Matthews?
      • Ernest T. Bass 3 months ago
        no he wasnt.. he seams to be more of a cut, copy, paste, type of reporter..
      • Democrat For Romney 3 months ago
        LOL that's what I thought, as I was reading it I had to scroll back up and see who wrote it.
    • P L  •  Pleasanton, California  •  3 months ago
      He disses Californians? You've got to be kidding. Did you go to the school for writing inflammatory headlines?
      • A Yahoo! User 3 months ago
        This is a Yahoo reporter, so the answer it YES he went to school on how to write misleading, inflammatory, idiotic, nonsensical headlines.
      • Jordan 3 months ago
        Yes, in fact.
      • alphadog101 3 months ago
        maybe it was just for san fran? lol
    • Smart Dude  •  3 months ago
      If the 49ers would have made it to the superbowl they would have won it. They went there 5 times and have won it every time. After it ended today NY won. The 49ers deserve it more after the way they played and won all year. Some things are just not fair. The Niners are still the champs as far as I am concerned.
    • ritchie c  •  Dallas, Texas  •  3 months ago
      i hate the media circus clowns and their stooped questions
    • Mike & Mo  •  Yuba City, California  •  3 months ago
      Wow being from northern California and a 49er fan forever reading all these comments I can feel a tear coming on! Hell I might have a sensitive side after all? #$%$ good game, #$%$ good season. Who gives a #$%$ how he feels, disappointed like the rest of us football fans when our team looses! I have friends and family who are fans of probably every team in the NFL and talk crap about my niners, the fun part is talking smack to them! Going to go wipe the sensitive tear from my eye now, #$%$ that #$%$ me off! Didn't know I had it!!!!
    • Kris  •  Charlotte, North Carolina  •  3 months ago
      I am Die hard GIANTS FAN but I also speak the truth the 49ers played there hearts out they played there best game of the year. There are winners and there are lossers but the 49ers are not lossers they are pro football players and they should hold there heads high. Now I can end this with something about my team of choise but I won't my hats off to you 49ers hold your heads high like champions of the year. Good luck for good things to come
    • gregory  •  Washington, District of Columbia  •  3 months ago
      have you ever played that game in school where the teacher tell you a short story & you tell another kid & he/she tell another kid & so on the next thing you know the story is all busted up with stuff the teacher never said.....news reporters still plays that game & very successful with it they can't get right.
    • Brock K  •  Kingfisher, Oklahoma  •  3 months ago
      Reporters ask stupid questions. Therefor they get stupid answers. You don't like it, be the first reporter to waltz into a press conference with a question regarding football and the man's team. He doesn't get paid to talk about his feelings. He gets paid to win football games.
    • Michael Ross  •  Baltimore, Maryland  •  3 months ago
      All I know is he brought the team back to life, before him I was like 49ers who
    • T S  •  3 months ago
      More like he disses reporters for asking him stupid questions.
    • AccursedArachnid  •  3 months ago
      I've lived in California my whole life and I can say with utter confidence that most Californians complain about California at least 5 times per day!
    • italy's favorite son  •  3 months ago
      I don't blame Harbaugh 1 bit.How the hell do you think he feels? His team played to expectations,& fell short of their goal because of 1 player's short comings.Now,I know there were other contributors,like not being able to stop Cruz,(which they actually did in the 2nd half)but none more damaging than the 2 costly turnovers.When the game plan was executed the way it was intended to & STILL ending up losing,there's nothing more to say.The expressions of disbelief,denial,hurt,& anger on the snake bit faces, tells you everything you need to know.
    • John  •  3 months ago
      Reporters are ASSHATS!!
    • MarksS  •  Carlsbad, California  •  3 months ago
      Not all Californians are of the mindset that this reporter is. I couldn't care less about a football player's or coach's "feelings". His emotional "status" is none of my business. And it's none of YOURS either.
    • IamSmarterThanYou  •  Bradenton, Florida  •  3 months ago
      I am a huge Giants fan and yes that was a fumble except the refs had blown the whistle prior to that ball coming out. While i was watching live i could clearly hear it and as soon as the ball was ripped out, i said the whistle already blew. Tough call if you are a Niners fan, but the Giants have gotten screwed enough with bad calls. Maybe if they converted more than 1 third down they would have won. Don't blame the refs.
    • A Yahoo! User  •  Phoenix, Arizona  •  3 months ago
      The question should be "how much did the coaching staff work with Williams, who had very little experience punt returning and was filling in for the starting punt returner, to avoid problems or mistakes on punt returns"....this loss is clearly and squarely on the coaching staff....Williams should have been told to fair catch it or get the #$%^ out of there....

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